The
Birth House
a novel
by Ami McKay
Interview
Q's & A's
Q:
The Birth House is your debut novel. How did you become a writer?
A:
It all started with a "Thank-You" note.
All
through high school, university, and grad school I wrote in secret, keeping all
of my thoughts, ideas, short stories and dreadful poetry in notebooks under by
bed. My New Year's resolution for the year 2000 (after much prodding from my partner)
was to start putting my writing out into the world. So, I declared 2000 to be
"the year of sending thank-you notes to people I didn't know." My first
letter led to a featured guest appearance on the Oprah Winfrey Show (and that
was just January!) After that whirlwind experience, I kept writing - freelance
documentaries for CBC radio, a short story here and there - and eventually my
first novel. I still commit random acts of writing thank-you notes from time to
time
just to keep the karma flowing.
Q:
What inspired you to write this particular book? Is there a story about the writing
of the novel that begs to be told?
A:
I moved from Chicago to Scots Bay, NS in 2000 (it was a big year for me).
By
the following spring I was pregnant with my second child. As my belly grew, the
women in the community began telling me stories about the midwife who had once
lived in the house that I now call home. My neighbour encouraged me to visit a
woman who had grown up in my house, the daughter of the midwife. Nearly 90, and
living in a nursing home, her mind and words were clear, her eyes bright. While
I sat with her, she explained that her biological mother had died three days after
her birth and that the midwife had adopted her (when no family could be found
to take her in). She spoke of her mother's calling as a midwife, how she cared
for the women, keeping them at the house for a week or more after a birth. She
then began to recite the names of all the women who had given birth in the house
as well as the names of their children.
I
was so inspired by her stories that I decided to have a midwife assisted home
birth. My son was born at home in the middle of a March snowstorm, another child
in the long linage of babies born in my house. Not long after his birth, I began
to make the first scribblings towards what would become The Birth House.
Q.
Chicago to Scots Bay, NS. What prompted such a big move?
A.
Love.
My husband is
Canadian. When he first brought me to visit Nova Scotia, I fell in love with the
ocean, the landscape and the people. The area around Scots Bay is known for its
amazing beauty and the famous hiking trail at Cape Split. While moving from a
city of 6 million to a small village of 250 people can cause quite a case of culture
shock, I knew it was what I needed to do. I had been through a lot of personal
changes in the months leading up to the move, including a nasty car accident that
left me in the hospital and then laid-up in my apartment for a month, so I was
really ready to find a quiet place I could call 'home.'
Q:
Obviously, a community that small will be close-knit. How have the people in Scots
Bay responded to the book?
A:
In ways I never imagined. (For better and occasionally for worse.)
I've
been blessed with wonderful neighbours and friends since I moved here. Although
I suppose I'm something of an odd-duck to most. They are (for the most part) people
who are part of the land and the land has been a part of their lives and their
families' lives for generations. It's not unlike the area where I grew up in Indiana
in that respect, although so far, the families of Scots Bay have been able to
hold on to their land and way of life, whereas the sadness of so many losing 'the
family farm' in Indiana still lives in me.
Most
have seen the book as a tribute to that way of life, to their tradition of having
great respect for nature, and they thank me for writing it down. But I'll admit,
there are a few in the community who have been offended by it and spoken out against
the novel. It's been called everything from "a book of lies" to "smut."
It was the hot topic of conversation and debate at the little general store for
quite a while. Of course, I'd much rather have people have an opinion about my
work than to not care about it one way or the other. That's when I know I've done
my job as a storyteller
Q:
The Birth House is about childbirth in the 1900's, but you wound up having a home
birth with the assistance of a midwife in 2001. How did you come to decide to
do that? Weren't you scared?
A:
Fear is highly overrated when it comes to childbirth.
After
speaking with the women in the community and hearing all of their stories about
the real midwife who had once lived in the house and the respect they had for
her, I started researching modern midwifery. My first birthing experience had
been in the States and was highly medicalized
my labour had been induced,
a lot of interventions followed and I felt like I had very little if any control,
choice or place in the situation. So with my second pregnancy, I consulted with
my family doctor and then began seeing a midwife as well. She was amazing! She
had delivered over 200 babies. She spent at least 45 minutes to an hour at every
visit. She included my husband and my son as well. What I also learned through
the process is that today's midwives are individuals who are both highly trained
and embrace tradition.
Our
society is caught up in the notion that childbirth is something that needs to
be feared. It's portrayed as always being a life and death situation. We expect
the pain to be unbearable, we expect something to go wrong, we willingly accept
interventions that lead to more aggressive measures. Women are joining the 'too
posh to push' club because they are scared of giving birth. Women who can afford
it are checking out of the hospital and straight in to five-star hotels so they
will have someone to wait on them.
That's what communities used to do. And
in my case, that's what my little community did after my son's home birth. They
brought enough food to feed my family for weeks! They visited and made sure I
had everything I needed. All these things caused me to ask myself, "what's
happened?" "What happened to the midwife?" "What happened
to the community of birth?"
Q:
What did happen? In the book, a doctor comes to town with the purpose of driving
midwifery out. He's quite a villain. Was there really so much animosity between
obstetricians and midwives?
A:
Sadly, yes.
When I
was researching the history of midwifery in North America, I found evidence of
a movement to eliminate midwives. Obstetrics was still a young branch of medicine
in the early 1900's and with WWI came the desire in all parts of society for things
to be faster, more efficient, and standardized. Childbirth was included in that
march towards progress.
I
found quotes from leading doctors of obstetrics outlining how to 'solve the midwife
problem.' They actively went to women's organizations - like women's auxiliary
and extension clubs - and lectured about the complications of childbirth, the
shortcomings of midwives and told the women that they should do whatever they
had to have a hospital birth with a doctor. There are quotes from medical conventions
where doctors say things like "Midwifery is a relic of barbarism."
We
live with that same tension today. Some OB's work hand in hand with midwives,
while others have a real distain for them. There was a quote in a national newspaper
in Toronto this past February where a doctor tells the reporter, "Parents
forget how many things can go wrong. Delivering a baby is a major medical procedure.
It's potentially dangerous, and it hurts like hell. Who do you want to be on the
receiving end -- a trained doctor backed up by modern life-saving machines and
painkillers, or some woman with a Guatemalan hat?" An OB's car in a hospital
parking lot had a bumper sticker that read, "Home delivery is for pizza."
I may have written a story set nearly one hundred years ago, but we're still trying
to work out these issues.
Q.
Childbirth wasn't the only thing that was regulated by the medical profession.
Your main character, Dora is diagnosed with hysteria and is urged to undergo 'treatments'
for her condition. Can you describe the treatment?
A.
Vibrators are a beautiful thing
At
the turn of the century, a woman might be diagnosed with hysteria for the following
symptoms - speaking her mind too often, reading too many novels, writing cramps,
headaches, fear of impending doom, and being overly 'fretful'. (just to name a
few)
In the 1880's British physician, Joseph M. Granville, was searching for
a better way to 'cure' hysteria in his female patients. By 1883, he had patented
the first electromechanical vibrator, a medical device that could perform "therapeutic
massage" in a quick and effective manner. (Yes, I'm talking about bringing
a woman to orgasm.) Early in the 20th century, portable home units were advertised
in women's magazines and almanacs, thus making the purchase of a personal vibrating
massager through mail order a popular alternative to visiting the doctor for prescribed
'treatments.'
An advertisement (circa 1918) for the White Cross Vibrator claimed:
It
will chase away the years like magic. Every nerve, every fibre of your whole body
will tingle with the force of your awakened powers. All the keen relish, the pleasures
of youth, will throb within you.
As electric lines went up across North America,
even Sears and Roebuck advertised a vibrator attachment for it's home motor. (Did
you know that home vibrators were invented before the vacuum cleaner and the electric
iron?) The list of Sears Home Motor attachments included: Home mixer, churn, beater,
fan, buffer and grinder, and portable vibrator. In an interesting twist of history,
'massagers' began to show up in the first 'stag' films of the 1920's and 30's
after which the medical justification for them quickly waned. Hmmm.
There's
even a hysteria
quiz on my web site you can take to see how many treatments you may require